The Wisdom of Purposeful Time Out…
TIME OUT for LOVE | 5.29.23
My Tantra Partner and went away together last May weekend to celebrate the two year anniversary of our first date. 💖 (The photo above was from our one-year anniversary trip.) I my weekly newsletter (which became this blog post) in advance because I took a time out ALL weekend… I didn’t post on social media or respond to any emails! This was, after all, a weekend for us to celebrate our love and spend quality time together.
Much of my work as a Tantric Sex, Love & Relationship Coach revolves around helping folx to deepen their connections with others. There is simply no replacing dedicated time alone together. My recommendations for couples is to take time out together for:
A date night - at least once a week,
A weekend away - seasonally, and
A 5+ day trip - annually.
This might sound crazy if you have kids at home, financial pressures, or a demanding job. However, I’d encourage you to think outside the box a bit and contemplate how you can make it work anyway. Here are some ideas!
Can you swap childcare with a friend or family member once a week so you can each have date nights? Have you ever considered a picnic date or a walk in the park as a date? Can you go camping or borrow a friend’s cabin/home for a weekend away? What if you volunteer to dog sit for a friend that’s traveling for a week, so you can have a change of venue with your partner for a stay-cation?
No matter how fantastic your relationship is, quality time together helps you get to the next level. Free from distractions (like laundry, work, and kids!) we have an opportunity to connect more deeply. Use the time to be present with each other (try staying off of media and TV!), communicate about your relationship, what you each like/love/want for the future, and make love!
If you are interested in elevated “at home” connection, try booking private Tantra Coaching! You can go to dinner (or get take out) and jump on Zoom with me for some guided communication, connection & sensual activities. It makes a great date night!
Let me know if you take any of this information to heart and implement it. I’d love to see a picture of you and your partner away together!