How SPICY Are Couples Sessions?
COUPLES COACHING | 9.19.22
Just as there are different types of work I do with individual clients, the variety of work I do with couples is quite broad. I can work with couples to help them chart a course to grow their relationship, deepen their intimacy, or have better communication by taking a customized approach.
I also do intimacy training with couples focused on tantric practices that are pure ✨magic✨ for your relationship.
Wondering how it works? It’s simple.
We meet on Zoom to get to know each other and develop goals for the work together. Then, in most sessions, I’ll lead you through practices on Zoom that are designed to help you move forward as a couple. These exercises include communication exercises, where you face each other — but I’m there to lead, observe, and hold space.
Usually, after a communication exercise, I’ll also lead you through a tantric practice. “BUT HOW,” you say, “ISN’T THAT INTIMATE?”
Yes, and no. Here we have options. Most of the time I’ll lead you through an intimate activity with your camera off. So, I can’t see you, but you can hear me — or even see what I’m showing you on screen. (Yes, sometimes you need a visual aid!)
Often, at the end of one of these sessions, you’ll want to make love… So, I just drop off and let you snuggle, integrate, or move into lovemaking.
If this seems too intrusive, no worries! I can work with that. We can do our sessions without any physical components. I’d just talk you through the homework and provide you with an audio file and/or PDF to guide you to do the practice with your partner on your own.
In-between sessions, I’ll receive feedback from you and/or set up integration times where we’ll talk together. If anything comes up before, during, or after these tantric couples sessions, we make the space to talk about it in session. I adjust to completely hold the space that you two need!
Interested in trying some of these practices to deepen your intimacy as a couple? Fill out my couples coaching application or email me with your questions!